Writing the Lady Casanova
There’s an expectation in Romance that a Leading Lady is only supposed to be with her One True Love. We always know who the love match is supposed to be; we apply this knowledge to the characters and impose on them an expectation of celibacy and monogamy even prior to that love match being realized. Our Leading Lady might have other lovers in her past, but we have an unspoken belief that she shouldn’t have had many, and those she's had should be regrettable or forgettable. We